Try not to be accusatory and punitive although it may be hard, as this will only push her away. I can imagine you are heartbroken dear sister, but all is not lost. As you know Allah SWT is most merciful and forgiving. I am sure you did all you could as a loving Islamic mother however at this age young adults often do what they please regardless of their upbringing or possible consequences. Often times young adults often try to uphold Islamic values however the sexual urges become too strong for them to contain. If not redirected into other activities to keep their minds busy, or if their relationship with Allah and Islamic principles are not strong, they often chose to ignore their Islamic upbringing and lose all values and morals associated with Islam.
My daughter is the age I was when I lost my virginity
My Year-Old Daughter Lost Her Virginity, Help!
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10+ Parents Shared How They Found Out Their Child Is No longer A Virgin And It’s Hilarious
It must be an awkward to have. Can you imagine the people who watched someone go from a baby to an adult and wrestle with the knowledge that this person has done the deed? These people, over at Reddit, shared their most intimate stories of how parents reacted when they found out about their children having sex.
Instead, I made her feel guilty and ashamed". Lucy had told me that several of her friends had lost their virginity. But so soon? How I cringe now as I recall my ranting.