According to research , almost half of us have engaged in anal sex. So my husband started doing both and I ended up with a horrible infection that smelled like a rat had crawled up my vag and died. So we stopped doing that and would pick a hole before hand. But he would still do oral all over the place and I ended up with that infection again. Plus, infection. He went to take a shower.
Why Women Engage in Anal Intercourse: Results from a Qualitative Study
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I Genuinely Like Anal Sex—and I’m Tired of Feeling Bad About It
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So, I'm sitting in my friend's West London living room, well into the bottle of cheap pinot grigio I dug out of her fridge, and already through with the couple of lines I had forgotten in my bag from an unnecessarily late night two weeks ago, and I'm supposed to write about why some people enjoy shoving a stick of meat up their poomaker. The truth is, I have no fucking idea. After you finish this article, read her counterpoint , which dives into the joys of sticking things up your butt. And you begin to consider it.